How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 02:50

How does one succeed in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How often should you forgive someone for hurting you? At what point should you cut ties?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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That's it for today.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.